In that vast expanse between Mad Max nihilism and Forest Gump chocolates lies real life, in all its bone fide euphoria and unavoidable diminishment. Two recently released films—one in theatres and one on DVD; one almost feel-good, one more thoroughly bittersweet—chart that territory with admirable honesty. Even while facing brute truth—because of facing brute truth—the overall effects were strangely uplifting, a welcome departure from tidy endings and deus-ex-machina resolutions.
35 Shots of Rum starts and ends with a rice cooker. That I have been unable to get rice cookers out of my head since seeing the film is a measure of writer/director Claire Denis’s careful cobbling of props and shots to create a compelling slice of life. She chooses her words and themes just as judiciously, creating a work that is spare on dialogue (indeed, the appearance of a chatty character towards the end of the film accosts the ears) and unfreighted by political extrapolation (of which, there is plenty to contend with, but that is the purview of other films). In focusing on everydayness, the movie becomes a roomy, mindful meandering through an ensemble of very ordinary lives, lived bridge-and-tunnel distance from a big city’s dizzying enticements, opportunities, even its potential for alienation.
At the heart of this journey, fittingly enough, is Lionel (Alex Descas), a commuter train engineer who ferries souls back and forth between Paris and its less glamorous suburbs as if traversing a modern Styx. His story intersects, overlaps but never overtakes those of the other characters—his daughter Joséphine (Mati Diop), studying economics at the local college; his old flame and neighbor Gabrielle (Nicole Dogue), a cabdriver, also in the transport business; and the aimless penthouse dweller with the Johnny Depp squint, Noé (Grégoire Colin). Like Kieslowski’s Decalogue, 35 Shots packs lifetimes of quiet drama within the framework of an apartment building and entire passions and possibilities awaken, endure and die within those walls.
There is among these characters a finely nuanced, almost painfully civilized regard for each other (this his how we know we’re not in Hollywood), punctuated at times by intense feeling. For example, in an especially true-to-life bar scene, we are treated to an entire exegesis on romantic relationships, all through the unconscious choreography of the dance floor—the infatuated intensity of a one-night-stand, the companionable familiarity of exes, the gamesmanship of young love and the crushing devastation of unreturned adoration. Throughout the film, the intimate, consistently observant camerawork is riveting, lingering on objects, caressing shoulders and ankles, peeking into private moments.
We come to know Lionel, tangentially, through those objects and moments, and learn that his own losses have not destroyed him. His moorings are held in place by a comfort in routine—work schedules, pre-dinner drinks, domestic rituals—and a conviction that his daughter is his great accomplishment and perpetuation, both repository of the past and promise for the future. This self-assurance steels and steers him, even when tragedy hits close to home, a steady railway man through and through. He breaks that resolve on rare occasions when milestones of sufficient grandeur arise. Then and only then, life merits some all-out celebration and excess, namely those 35 shots—a release, a reward, a poetic reminder of life’s intoxicant warmth and sting.
The poetry of The Wrestler, on the other hand, can be found in Mickey Rourke’s blunt and bruised face. Though we get ringside seats to the battering, head-butting and burlesque of modern wrestling, there is no more eloquent statement on life’s violence—its toll, trials and heartache—than that bashed-and-rebuilt, survivor-to-the-last, (and here’s the kicker) gentle-under-it-all mug. Rourke plays Randy “The Ram” Robinson, a past-his-prime New Jersey wrestler who’s hit the skids when health issues and weariness threaten to take away his livelihood and sole source of validation. The experience forces a change; after years of tossing intimacy aside for career, Randy must tough it out some other way, abandon his quest for fame, glory and the adulation that passes for love, perhaps even re-route and right his life.
Though more than capably directed by Darren Aronofsky (of Pi and Requiem for a Dream), the plot itself is awash in cliché, from the down-and-out fighter to the estranged father-daughter relationship to the underdog’s scrabble from the depths. Instead of a prostitute, we get a stripper with a heart of gold. But the familiarity of the plot—as old as Greek myth, as predictable as a Grimm fable—is what makes it so accessible and the brilliant performances Aronofsky draws from his actors are what make it so gripping. For Rourke, Randy is the role he’s prepared all his life to play and he fleshes out the finer shades of vulnerability, haphazard desperation, thick-skinned stamina and resignation in the character. As Cassidy, Marisa Tomei re-invents the standard-issue stripper with well-developed armor of her own (both characters hide best when completely exposed), a jaded demeanor and a hint of hopefulness (she’s the one who spurs Randy toward reconciling with his daughter, played by Evan Rachel Wood). She represents a lifeline for Randy, but one that is at various points too short, too tenuous or too late. Ever the self-made man, Randy performs his most courageous act outside the arena: staring down his history, owning up to his failures and forging ahead anyway.
In the end, 35 Shots of Rum and The Wrestler make a thought-provoking double-feature about the unsung bravery of facing each day and salvaging a sense of humanity from life’s occasional or accumulated wreckage. Lionel and Randy pick their way through the debris and have found different ways of accommodating it. Whether through saving or squandering, protecting or risking, merely subsisting or offering sustenance, each makes peace with his disappointments. As for finding physical and spiritual nourishment on the way, sometimes a rice cooker is just a rice cooker and sometimes it is a small salvation.